Still Standing:
A Therapist Who’s Lived What She Talks About

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Marriage counselor Kristy Lane, wearing a green jacket and jeans, sitting on a chair. She has shoulder-length dark hair and is adorned with bracelets, a ring, and a watch. The background is neutral, creating a relaxed atmosphere.

Meet Kristy Lane

Hi, I’m Kristy Lane and I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapy Associate, supervised by Dr. Rachel Falbo, LMFT-S, LPC-S. But more than that, I’m a mom who’s been in the trenches.

I’ve spent over 21 years raising my own four children and several foster children. I understand what it’s like to parent kids with unique needs, including neurodiverse children and those affected by PANDAS/PANS. The constant demands can leave you overwhelmed, isolated, and worn thin—especially when it feels like no one else truly gets it.

That’s where I come in. I offer virtual therapy across Texas and in-person therapy in Paris, TX for parents, women, individuals, and couples who are tired of carrying it all alone. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, burnout, relationship stress, or just trying to find your way back to yourself—I will create a safe, supportive space to breathe, sort things out, and start feeling like you again.

A woman crouching and playfully interacting with a child in a green hooded outfit on a city street.

I know that Parenting a high-needs child is harder than anyone tells you

You love your child more than anything, but parenting them is exhausting in a way you never expected. Maybe you’ve spent years researching, advocating, and fighting for the support they need, only to feel completely drained. Maybe your marriage is feeling the strain, your own needs have been pushed aside, or you don’t even remember the person you were before parenting took over.

I get it—not just as a therapist, but as a parent who has lived through it.

The constant demands can leave you feeling drained, disconnected, and questioning how to keep it all together. It’s easy to lose sight of yourself and your own needs while you’re doing everything you can for your child. I understand that feeling deeply. Having raised both biological and foster children, including those with unique needs, I’ve lived through the challenges and emotional toll. It's okay to acknowledge the struggle, and it's okay to seek support.

  • "You are your best thing."

    Toni Morrison

  • "Every woman who heals herself helps heal all the women who came before her, and all those who come after."

    Marianne Williamson

  • “Being a mother is learning about strengths you didn’t know you had and dealing with fears you didn’t know existed.”

    Linda Wooten

  • “Out of difficulties grow miracles.”

    Jean de La Bruyère

Feeling lost and unsure of who you are? Is the emotional energy of parenting a high-needs child leaving you drained or putting pressure on your marriage? Are you grieving the life you thought you'd have?

Parenting a neurodiverse child or one with PANDAS/PANS can make it hard to see yourself clearly. All of your emotional energy often goes into your child’s needs, and your own identity can fade away.

I work with parents and families facing these struggles, offering a safe, non-judgmental space where you can feel truly understood. Together, we can work to reconnect you to who you are, manage stress, and find a healthier, more fulfilling way to parent by allowing yourself to process these real, heavy emotions.

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